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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Teenagers are people too.

1/2/2014

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Yet many teenagers feel they have nothing to live for. A study carried out by The Prince's Trust in the UK found that almost a third of long-term unemployed young people have contemplated taking their own lives. How could this be so? These teens live in an affluent society, where all people are treated as equal. I wonder what a similar study would reveal among the teenagers in Mumbai, like the film Slum Dog Millionaire portrayed.

Be that as it may, in the latest news, as many as three quarters of a million young people in the UK may feel depressed—even suicidal.

The Prince's Trust Macquarie Youth Index was based on interviews with over two thousand 16 to 25-year-olds. Of these, 281 were classified as not in employment, education or training. 166 of them had been unemployed for over six months. The Chief Executive of the Prince's Trust, said: "Unemployment is proven to cause devastating, long-lasting mental health problems among young people. Thousands wake up every day believing that life isn't worth living, after struggling for years in the dole queue. More than 440,000 young people are facing long-term unemployment, and it is these young people that urgently need our help. If we fail to act, there is a real danger that these young people will become hopeless, as well as jobless."

The UK Government is taking measures to help all young people gain work by creating job schemes. But can these really work on the tiny, overcrowded island of Great Britain given the hormonal nature of teenagers?

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Apparently, the teenager is a uniquely human phenomenon—moody, argumentative, impulsive, impressionable, insecure, reckless and rebellious.

Most other animals, apes and human ancestors included, skip the teen stage altogether. They develop rapidly from infancy to full adulthood. In contrast, humans have a four-year gap between sexual maturity and prime reproductive age.

I remember my own teenage years. I thought I knew everything and considered my mother inferior. How I wish I could relive those years and give her the credit, love and respect she deserved. My own teenage children showed all the symptoms above, as did their children. Personal experience means more than all the news.

Adolescents are hard to understand with their odd sleeping patterns, awkward growth spurts, bullying, and acne. Is there a benefit to the evolution of the species from this the teenage phase?

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There are a variety of current explanations. Perhaps we need longer for our large brains to develop. Other suggestions include the thought that a teenage phase allows kids to learn about complex social behavior and other difficult skills. Certainly, other animals and even human ancestors lived a simpler life. Teenagers need to learn so many intricate ways to fit into urban life. The necessary approach of raising your own food on a farm was far less complex.

Perhaps our way of life has evolved too much. Do we really need all the gismos that developers release with ever increasing frequency?


9 Comments
fiona maclean link
1/1/2014 07:19:10 pm

There's something of a cult of consumerism in the UK, which I think really affects teenagers. Too many false promises from university courses which create debt and only postpone unemployment and the death of manufacturing in this country makes a solution hard to see

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Francene Stanley link
1/2/2014 02:17:52 am

Well put, Fiona. It must be terrible to take on so much debt before you've even begun to work.

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Melissa link
1/1/2014 07:23:48 pm

I used to teach teenagers. They certainly were a fun group but also challenging! I hope all that I learned through teaching will come back to me once my own children are at that phase.

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Francene Stanley link
1/2/2014 02:18:34 am

Teenagers are all different. I guess, all you need it love.

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Cas link
1/1/2014 07:32:03 pm

I can so relate to this now that my tweenager is hitting 14 soon. All of a sudden he's yelling at me "You have no real power!" I try not to laugh! Tomorrow my teen and I are going on a mum and son date! Can't wait! At least he still wants to spend time with his Mum. I'm sure, pretty soon, that will change!

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Francene Stanley link
1/2/2014 02:20:09 am

Treasure these last moments when your son is sweet. Store them away in your memory where they'll guide you through the coming storm.

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Sophie Bowns link
1/2/2014 01:27:40 am

There's quite often negative stigma attached to teenagers. A lot of older generations just assume that they are all bad news, a lot of the time, this label is incorrect!

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Francene Stanley link
1/2/2014 02:21:21 am

I'm sure there are good and bad, just the same as adults. Society makes them behave in strange ways nowadays.

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Alana link
1/2/2014 06:35:20 am

I wonder if some (not all) of "teenage behavior" is culturally dictated. It's interesting, that in a lot of cultures teens are made to undergo challenges or initiations that can be quite dangerous and/or painful - but these ceremonies may also make the teenager feel like they are valued members of society once they are successfully completed. I think too many teenagers in our Western societies feel worthless and unneeded.

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