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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Identical twins are not necessarily close.

1/4/2014

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PictureAn example of singing twins Jedward
In the latest news, a 31-yr-old twin (not pictured) has been accused of murdering his brother after a row on New Year's Eve. Paramedics rushed him to hospital but he died an hour later. His brother was arrested early in the next morning five miles away.

One brother’s eyebrow piercings and the other’s tattoos of his ex-girlfriend’s name helped friends and relations identify them. Before that fateful night at a family party, the brothers had arguments about silly little things like all brothers do. They soon made up, shook hands and put it behind them. But this time, one twin stabbed the other twice, leading to his death.

At first, this violence seems contrary to the close bond twins develop in the womb—even more so for identical twins. But twins can behave in completely different ways. A mouse study showed how small changes in behavior can lead to larger ones and even change the brain.

Studying the difference between twins remains a favorite tool of behavioral geneticists. Researchers have used twin studies to try to disentangle the environmental and genetic backgrounds of many traits in people, including aggression, intelligence, schizophrenia, and alcohol dependence.

As behavioral genetics enters a second century, the field's oldest research method remains both relevant and controversial.

 (excerpt from Smithsonian, 1980, and Newsweek, 8 Nov, 1993)


The study at the University of Minnesota began with the Jim Twins. Other recently reunited twins participated as well. Twins shared jewelry wearing habits, children's names, phobias(claustrophobia is common among twins....something about being two in a womb maybe), fear of high elevations, thyroid disease, speech defects. In one case, both twins were gay, in another, only one was gay. One set of twins, Oskar Stohr of Germany and Jack Yufe of California were separated after their birth in Trinidad and grew up in very different cultural surroundings. Yufe was brought up a Jew by his Jewish father in Trinidad and Stohr was raised in occupied Czechoslovakia and went ot a Nazi-run school. Their attitudes were different, but Bouchard observed similarities in "temperment, tempo and the way they do things" as well as their idiosycracies. Both wore short, clipped moustaches, stored rubber bands around their wrists, and read magazines back to front. Both also shared the habit of sneezing loudly in public to attract attention. This latter trait is baffling. Some things remain inexplicable. "The results showed that such characteristics as leadership ability, imagination, vulnerability to stress and alienation were largely inherited." However, traits such as aggression, achievement, orderliness and social closeness were fostered in the home environment. Some twins turned out very differently, too. One twin in the Minnesota study grew up to be a "stellar pianist" in a non-musical adoptive family. Her sister, adopted by a piano teacher, never took to the instrument.

Some characteristics thought to be environmental, such as phobias, may well have a genetic componant. Twins raised apart may actually be more similar than those raised together because pairs brought up together can emphasize the differences between them. Some critics speculate that twins' different environments have been inadequately studied and that adopted twins might not be an accurate sample because the circumstances of adoption may affect behavior. Bouchard concludes, "In a sense we're tampering with the idea of the importance of the family in child-rearing. Our findings suggest that the subtle differences between and within families are not as important as people have thought in determining interests, abilities and personalities."

None of this explains why one twin stabbed his brother on New Year's Eve. An alcohol-fueled rage could be the answer. Perhaps, they were following the precedent set by the bible story about Cain and Abel. I can't imagine how the guilty brother must feel.

PictureLittle Virginia and Francene (me)
In my own experience of growing up with sisters, I can see how family nature influenced us to speak our mind no matter what. Some call that bossiness. In our environment, poverty and making do with what life presented helped us to become strong and resourceful. Yet, we branched out in completely different career choices. My youngest sister Robyn studied to gain doctorates in this and that, Virginia worked as a ward sister in a hospital, and I took easy jobs like catering. Robyn is now writing papers and the other two of us are novelists. Virginia writes historical romances and I prefer fantasy. (See the sidebar for titles. One click will take you to Amazon.) I can't tell if nature or nurture played the biggest role.

What do you think influenced your family relationships?


13 Comments
David Puttemans link
1/3/2014 08:05:44 pm

Thanks for sharing this awful story with us, the brother will have to live the rest of his life with this! I´ve got twin friends myself and they are two hands on a belly so it makes me sad to reach such stories. In my family we live by the simple rule that if there is a problem we put it on the table, if the others like it or not, and we solve it all together.

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Francene Stanley link
1/3/2014 09:54:54 pm

I think that's a great way to solve family problems. My family is much more reserved, maybe secretive--afraid of offending anyone and way too polite to expose their failings.

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David Puttemans link
1/4/2014 05:07:06 am

Francene,

from my point of view, does not matter if it is business, blogging, internet marketing, family, sports, love, problems, etc.....it all comes down to communication. It was difficult for me in my younger years but I discovered that communication and honesty without any fears work very enlighting

Aletha McManama link
1/3/2014 08:42:22 pm

I always hate hearing of death that has been caused by another family member, especially when it comes to the killing of a sibling or a parent. The twin story above really saddens me. In my opinion, I think that what impacts siblings, twins or not, is how they are reared and accepted by their parents. I agree with David's comment...solve the problem at home by bringing it out in the open and resolving it right then and there.

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Francene Stanley link
1/3/2014 09:57:09 pm

It's so very sad for this sort of thing to happen. You're right about rearing and acceptance, although it made no impact on these twins.

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Dannie Wallace link
1/3/2014 09:15:19 pm

I have a few friends with either twin kids etc... Some are really close and feel pain it's odd if one of my friends kids are in a different room ,one falls over the other one yells that hurt (they are 7) this story is so sad .

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Francene Stanley link
1/3/2014 09:58:16 pm

This is what I thought happened between twins, Dannie. I guess it's not the case with them all. Maybe it's just the sensitive ones.

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Shelley Workinger link
1/3/2014 10:27:21 pm

I always wished I was a multiple growing up, thinking it would be so great to have such close and similar siblings, so I find it fascinating that the research said twins raised apart can actually be closer than those raised together. The emphasis on differences because of proximity is something I never thought of, but of course it makes complete sense.

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Francene Stanley link
1/3/2014 10:32:08 pm

You're right, Shelley. Everyone wants to be unique, so growing up together would produce differences in their likes and behavior.

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Alana link
1/4/2014 08:08:21 am

I am an only child - my son is an only child. Sibling relationships have fascinated me from an early age. I am somewhat close to my sister in law, but it isn't the same thing.

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Francene Stanley link
1/4/2014 06:57:52 pm

I can see how you'd be curious. I think friendships you make within the family are just as good.

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Sophie Bowns link
1/4/2014 05:44:57 pm

That's an awful story!
I have a younger sister and I'd say that we get on reasonably well now :-)

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Francene Stanley link
1/4/2014 06:59:01 pm

When you say 'now', I'm guessing you weren't always close.

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