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Would you marry under the threat of death?

6/24/2014

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Weeks of campaigning and anger around the world have paid off.

A pregnant Sudanese woman is believed to have been released from prison after being convicted of apostasy, which is abandoning one's religious faith. She and her husband, a US citizen, married in a formal church ceremony in 2011.

The case sparked international outrage after her death sentence for converting from Islam to Christianity. Since the ruling emerged last month, a petition by Change.org online received more than 980,000 signatures and an Amnesty International campaign followed Ms Ibrahim's story.

Shackled in heavy chains, she faced 100 lashes plus execution by hanging for marrying the man she loved. The pregnant woman was forced to give birth in chains in the hospital wing at Omdurman Federal Women’s Prison in Sudan's capital, Khartoum.

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Muslim women in Sudan are prohibited from marrying non-Muslims, though Muslim men can marry outside their faith. The court in the north-east African country gave her four days to repent her decision to marry a Christian and escape death, but after defense lawyers presented their case, the order was canceled. It is not yet known if the lashing conviction has been dropped.

After receiving personal threats, and menaces to members of her family, her welfare is in doubt in the volatile Muslim country. If the reports are accurate, the recent court decision comes as the culmination of weeks of campaigning and anger around the world.

The former Prime Minister Tony Blair, who urged the Sudanese government to intervene ahead of her reported release today, called the case a "brutal and sickening distortion of faith".

The US State Department said it was "deeply disturbed" by Ms Ibrahim's sentence, and Hillary Clinton described it as "abhorrent".

My own parent's opposition to my early marriage only made me more determined to marry the boy I loved.

How does that old song go? If I Were A Carpenter, track #26 on the album The Essential Johnny Cash, written by Tim Hardin.

If I were a carpenter

And you were a lady

Would you marry me anyway?

Would you have my baby?

. . . repeat ...



If a tinker was my trade

Would you still find me?

I'd be carryin' the pots you made

Followin' behind you



Save my love through loneliness

Save my love through sorrow

Am giving you my loneliness

Gimme your tomorrow



If I were a miller

And a mill wheel grindin'

I would miss my pretty dress

And my soft shoe shinin'?



If you were a miller

At a mill wheel grindin'

I'd not miss my colored blouse

And my soft shoe shinin'?



Save your love through loneliness

Save your love through sorrow

I gave you my onlyness

Gimme your tomorrow



If I worked my hands in wood

Would you still love me?

I'd answer you, "Yes I would"

And would you not be above me?

. . . repeat ...


That's all very well. But should religion dictate who we can marry? In the modern society, how far would you push through bigotry, hate, and segregation to be with the man or woman you love?

6 Comments
Julie link
6/23/2014 07:34:49 pm

Fantastic post!

This is one of the MANY reasons why I'm not religious, I know not all religions are this strict but it sickens me. How dare any religion, or any one dictate who you can and can't marry. It also cracks me up how in these sorts of religions that the male can do as he pleases. That makes me pleased that I live in a Weston country where women have equal rights (not always the case but in the most part it is)

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Sophie Bowns link
6/23/2014 10:15:57 pm

I'm also so glad that I am not religious- it's safer that way.
Marry someone or die-that isn't the best of choices! 0_0

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Alexandria Ingham link
6/23/2014 10:28:31 pm

I am a religious person, but I dated someone outside of my religion. This is one thing that will always stop me from even visiting a country that is so closed to other religious groups. I don't even like any religion telling me strictly what I can or cannot do. I'm a Protestant, and I believe that is more freedom in that, especially in Christian societies. Most of the commandments are legal requirements or good socially anyway.

I like to be myself where I live and make my own choices. To have the pressure of renounce your faith/marry someone else or die isn't right.

However, I do wonder if my view would be different if I'd been raised in Sudan. That's why I avoid many of these political discussions because who are we in Britain or America to say how another country should choose to "look after" its people? We hate it when other countries push their views on us.

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Ellen Archer link
6/23/2014 10:36:05 pm

This is a very interesting post, but I agree with above that it is a large reason why I am not a religious person. I don't agree with the many facets of your life that religion tries to take over or control. I am more spiritual, but not religious.

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Nick link
6/24/2014 04:33:46 am

Interesting points. I'd like to say if I was in love, I'd get married.

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Alana link
6/24/2014 08:02:12 am

I, too, am not religious. In my case, I married someone outside my religion, back in the 1970's, and my parents in law refused to come to our wedding. (How ironic that, 40 years later, I am now in the position of being a long distance caregiver for said mother in law). But we had other family supporting us - and friends - if we hadn't had that support - who knows. I am not sure just how brave I would have been.

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