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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

The deception of dreams.

12/28/2014

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You won't read anything about dreams in the news, but they say everybody has them even if they don't remember.


We might like to think that we're normal people, living life on the surface, but hidden depths point to the unknown.


Take dreams. Dreams are successions of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations which occur involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.

But what do they mean? Why do we have them? Science points to the brain needing to remain cognizant during sleep. But I wonder if the spiritual individuals among us might be right in that dreams send messages to the mind which we need to learn from.


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Last night, I dreamed my son returned. He died 25 years ago in a car accident. I returned to Australia from England to see his body. Yet in my dream he looked exactly the way he had last time I met him at the age of 28 years. He had visited me at my mother's house—brought her a rose, and showered me with love. Mother took this photo on her verandah in the Australian warmth.

In my dream, I hugged him. Yet, I didn't receive that normal warm glow during the embrace. Only my mind rejoiced.

Thinking back, on yesterday's daily stroll uphill, I invited him to walk with me. Well, not him, but my recollection of him in my imagination. I wanted company in my lonely routine of pushing a rollator up and down the busy road, reasoning that so many families get together during Christmas. I won't say my experiment worked. But, it must have played on my mind enough to spark the dream. I don't usually remember any night scenes, which must be the reason this dream remained with me.

But, is there something I could learn from the dream? I can think of two lessons. Kym's not dead, but living in what we refer to as heaven, or Kym's alive in my memory. I prefer the former.


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Lisa Scott link
12/27/2014 06:12:46 pm

Funnily enough I have recently been remembering a lot of dreams..... sometimes I think they are there to help us work out what we should be doing in our "life", but other times I think our souls travel while we are "sleeping" and when we awake we sometimes remember parts of our journey! I do believe in life after death and possibly a parallel existence, therefore I believe Kym's spirit is in "heaven". :)

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Nicola Murdock link
12/27/2014 06:41:40 pm

What a truly touching blog post and dream. Sounds like your son is watching over you and his love has shone through if even only for a short time .. thoughts are with you Nicola xx

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Rachel link
12/27/2014 07:45:45 pm

I often remember my dreams and I always wonder what they mean, so when I went to Uni, my best friend bought me a book called a Dream Dictionary and it gives you an entire index of all different terms like fire, teeth falling out, getting lost and so on, which could have certain meaning from your dream. Whether it is true or not, I find it totally fascinating to read x

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Dannie Wallace link
12/27/2014 09:24:17 pm

wow! Powerful post and lovely Francene! I remember most of my dreams always have. Since aged 10 i wake up and can recall almost everything odd isn't it.

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Salma link
12/28/2014 12:13:50 am

Very deep post, thanks for sharing.

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Alana link
12/28/2014 06:20:23 am

I hope this is a sign of something good about ready to happen in your life, and in the new year. Dreams can have a lot of power. I dreamed of both my mother and father for many years after they passed away.

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