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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Is curtain twitching observant or nosy?

10/16/2014

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A study of 2,000 adults commissioned by Yale as part of National Home Security MonthOne found in three of us spy on our neighbors.

Half of people surveyed said they knew when next door leave and return from work.

One in 10 admit they have been caught peeking out the window when they hear something going on in their street.

Most common reason given was to check neighbors are 'all right'.

Half surveyed could recall the times neighbors leave and return from work.

Almost 50% of people surveyed said they could spot a new car immediately, with a fifth noticed a stranger visiting.

Other aspects were observing parcels being delivered, if a couple argue more than normal or even when the online shopping comes. 

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Is this tendency normal in human beings? I suspect it is. Cavemen and women would have needed to be constantly on guard for anything unusual close by to prepare for danger. Even birds sound the alert about a threat close by. Humans need to be aware of their surroundings too. In movies, I always wonder why the characters go about their business with their curtains open at night, spotlighting their movements and leaving them open to danger.

On the flip side or watching what's going on, 17 per cent have fallen out with their neighbors over their intrusive behavior.

Almost three in ten troubled homeowners have even confronted the people next door over their nosiness, though many said the snooping didn't change.

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A third of those polled had neighbors that were so nosy it had led them to avoid that person wherever possible.

However, just under three quarters of respondents said that they would always raise the alarm and inform the homeowner if they saw something unusual occur on the property.

In the UK where I live in Hertfordshire, we have a Neighbourhood Watch scheme. Citizens are encouraged to use this natural tendency and let the authorities know of anything suspicious. The police call everyone in the area if a series of burglaries occur nearby.

I don't know about you, but I'm an observant person. If I'm in the front of my home, I notice any car that pulls up outside or any stranger knocking at the communal outer door. I spot anything out of place inside, or if my husband has missed a belt loop or if the bedspread isn't straight. Outside the back window, I watch enthralled when birds visit my garden or a cat sneaks through.

My husband isn't quite as alert about minor things inside each room, but he sure takes action if there is a potential threat to the home.

Do you think twitching curtains to get a good view of what's going on outside is natural or nosy?


8 Comments
mez link
10/15/2014 07:53:18 pm

Hmmm this is an interesting topic. In a way you get that added security but Sometimes it is just plain nosy .

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Nick #thisyearinmusic link
10/15/2014 09:43:44 pm

Sadly I think it's normal behaviour, it might harken back to wartime when people took more notice of their neighbours in case they were spies\informants.

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Alexandria Gunn link
10/15/2014 10:40:39 pm

I used to be really nosy and my husband would tell me off for it. I've always grown up in a small street, where only the residents or their visitors would be. Now we live with one of the main roads right outside so it's much harder to tell when it's a neighbour's family member parking outside or someone else entirely.

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Scott link
10/16/2014 12:45:27 am

If it is outside, it is in the public and there is nothing nosy about it. However, if you're peering into a neighbors house, then yes, you're out of line.

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Ashley link
10/16/2014 01:24:45 am

I can't lie, I'm a nosy or putting nicer, observant. I think it's part of my interest in human behavior. Having studied acting, I like to really know how people operate and behave.

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Joan Harrington link
10/16/2014 02:22:35 am

Hi Francene!

I do not know lol Could be either one observant and nosy just depends what it is you are looking at?

Great post!

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Patricia link
10/16/2014 03:42:28 am

I admit it. I watch one of our neighbors. Mostly because there are children there and the mum's boyfriend gets a little violent in their arguments.

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Emily Harvey link
10/17/2014 01:35:47 am

I'm so nosey! I love to know what's going on around me. My Mum has to be the worst person for it tho!

Emily x

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