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Do relationships last beyond death?

9/19/2014

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UK archaeologists at a lost chapel in Leicestershire have discovered the skeletons of a man and woman holding hands seven centuries after they were buried.

I can't help wondering if they were both alive when they were buried or if one partner chose lie down and to link hands with their departed love. Perhaps they asked that they could be buried this way after their demise, although duel burials were quite rare back then.

University of Leicester archaeologists believe the pair have been holding hands in the Chapel of St Morrell in Hallaton for around 700 years.

For the last four years, the archaeologists and volunteers from the Hallaton Fieldwork Group have excavated the 14th century pilgrimage site. As well as the skeleton couple, they have revealed the full chapel plan and uncovered walls, a tiled floor as well as fragments of stone masonry, wall plaster, tiles and lead from the windows. To indicate when the chapel was in use, a number of silver pennies dating between the 12th and the 16th centuries have also been found on the site.

The team believes the chapel may have been an area of pilgrimage. Alternatively, society might have refused them burial in the main church not far away, perhaps because they were criminals, foreigners or sick.

Roman archeology found beneath the medieval chapel suggests that the hilltop has been a special place for over 2,000 years. 

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Some relationships last a lifetime. We pledge in our marriage vows to stay with our partner through sickness and in health, for better or worse until death parts us. The romantic notion is rarely fulfilled in these modern times when divorce is easy and emotions fickle. And yet, most people admire the lucky couples who have remained together their whole lives.


Excerpt from Everlasting Love

ARTIST: U2

Like the sun it shines

Endlessly it shines

You always will be mine

Eternal love

Whenever love went wrong

Ours would still be strong

We'd have our own

Everlasting love

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During the 27 years of my youth, I tried with all the strength I possessed to support my first love through his depression and misogynistic behavior. In the end, I knew my mind would suffer if our union continued. Marriage should be equal in all aspects.

I'm lucky to have found a good man who loves me no matter what over the 25 years we've been married. We have arranged a joint grave. It's not macabre. Just forward planning. There's nothing more certain than death. I like to think our spirit lives on.

Do you think relationships last beyond death?


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shauna link
9/18/2014 10:44:27 pm

Interesting topic! It's romantic to think they do:-)

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Latoyah Egerton link
9/18/2014 10:50:53 pm

An interesting topic, but more importantly 25 years with someone is a great achievement. Soul mates for life and death.

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India link
9/18/2014 10:54:55 pm

I don't really know what I believe about life after death in terms of our souls, but I think if one partner dies and the other hasn't that the relationship will go on in the live partner :)

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Mary link
9/18/2014 11:07:54 pm

The romantic in me hope that we are with our true loves forever!

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Penny McDaniel link
9/19/2014 01:11:28 am

I saw the photo of the couple holding hands yesterday, and I thought how beautiful. I don't see death as death. I see it as a transition from one form of existence to another. Energy does not die; it merely changes form. When we are free of our physical shell, our energy goes beyond the grave and our love carries on.
Blessings.

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Judy - Pedagogical Artist link
9/19/2014 02:06:27 am

While I believe that people you love are with you forever in both heart and mind, I India, I too don't have a crystallized belief about life after death - one way or another. Love and a relationship do not just happen. Both parties either contribute or contaminate as Dr. Phil would say. Thank you Francene for the post and the clever photos that I almost overlooked! Kept asking myself, what do baseball players have to do with this??? HUGS <3

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K.Lee Banks link
9/19/2014 07:35:32 am

Hi Francene! Fascinating topic, as always! Like you, I tried to remain in a nearly 20-year marriage with my ex, for the sake of the children (then teens), but it just was a soul-crushing experience. Also like you, I was blessed to meet someone new - the true love of my life - and he and I have been together now for 11 years (married for 8).

I do believe relationships continue after death, because of my own belief in God and what He promises about reunions with our loved ones. My Dad passed in 2002, and my Mom in 2011 - I had a very vivid picture (whether in mind or spirit, I don't know) of Dad welcoming Mom with open arms as she entered the heavenly gates.

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Alana Mautone link
9/19/2014 08:45:13 am

My husband and I (married 40 years plus) have different religious beliefs. I truly don't know if deathbed visions are real, but the visions where other people in the room experience the same vision are fascinating to me. I was with my mother when she died and she didn't articulate any kind of vision. But I saw a type of...shimmering the moment she passed- hard to describe. I was only 12. I don't know what I saw, but I pray I will be together with my husband and my parents in the next place (if there is a next place) one day.

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