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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

An anaconda, pain and balance.

12/6/2014

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To highlight the plight of the African rainforest, Paul Rosolie allowed himself to be eaten alive by a giant snake in a documentary for the Discovery Channel.

He wore a super-strong carbon-fiber suit fitted with camera, radio mic and a crush-proof hose leading to a trailing oxygen mask all slathered in pig's blood when he faced the 20ft long, 18 ½ st green anaconda.

'She nailed me right in the face, and the last thing I remember was her mouth open wide, straight in my face, and everything went black. I went limp and let it constrict. All the while I was just thinking: “Eat, eat, eat!” ’

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He describes the crushing feeling, which lasted for more than an hour, as like being caught under a powerful wave.

‘She wrapped around me and I felt my suit cracking and my arms ripping out of their sockets,’ he says. ‘It was absolutely terrifying.’

Overseen by doctors and vets, his armored suit cracked under the pressure. Enveloped in the snake’s coils, he couldn’t see anything but he was able to radio back to his team to say he was alive. They had agreed that once he was in past his waist, they would pull him out before it became too difficult to extract him without damaging either him or the snake. Read more: 


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It's hard to imagine the pain of another person, but I wouldn't want to face the gaping mouth of an anaconda.

Sometimes, pain makes me snappy. The same thing probably happens to you. I have the best of intentions to be nice, to repeat what I say without annoyance, but I raise my voice. My expression must reveal how I feel because my husband says, “All right. No need to be nasty.”

I'm the very one who should be understanding right now because of his illness, but my ears are very painful after a recent syringe at the surgery.

They ached right after treatment, but the nurse inspected the eardrum and said everything was okay. However, the pain got worse. Sharp pain, like a knife twisting inside my head. I saw the doctor two days later after my ears continued to weep. He gave me a week's dosage of antibiotics with a repeat visit ordered. The seepage stopped but the pain didn't. After the next visit, I got spray which needs to be used thrice daily. Pain, pain, pain. At night, it's almost unbearable. Hopefully, the condition will improve.

But that brings me to the question of controlling pain. Painkillers don't work for strong pain. I guess you've noticed that. I'm used to pain and have built a high tolerance in certain areas. My head seems to be outside this protection barrier though, requiring more strength on my part.

I first learned to control pain in the 80s. At about the same time, I began to meditate. I guess they go hand in hand. Wherever I was, I found that when pain kicked in, I could concentrate on a tiny point in my forehead and the feeling would fade. That trick came in useful over the next years as my hip condition worsened. I was born with malformed hips, but didn't know until late in life when I was diagnosed at the age of 40.

My marriage split up then and I moved from Australia to the other side of the world. In England, I learned to cope alone, got a job as a nanny within a week of arrival, and tended a 6 month baby.

By the time I met my present husband, my condition was worsening. One promise he made to me when we fell in love was that he would care for me for the rest of our lives together. This he has done, and now, 25 years later, he takes care of the cleaning, the shopping and the cooking. What a man.

Now, he's lost so much weight that it's hard for him to continue as before. We support each other, both in pain and both growing old. Yet, I bless our closeness.

Perhaps we need to balance good with bad in this life.

How do you handle pain?


12 Comments
Lilinha Espindula link
12/5/2014 06:39:42 pm

I believe it is all about supporting each other. I am also lucky to have an amazing husband, he is so helpful and I couldn't have achieved so much without him! x

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Sharon Martin link
12/5/2014 06:52:15 pm

In a way you are certainly blessed to have found each other to share your life with. I try to keep focused on something or busy to take my mind of pain, although not 100%.

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Janice Wald link
12/5/2014 11:23:48 pm

Hi Francene,
How cool to be the featured blogger. Go you!
My husband turned me on to Excedrin. I am a big believer in western medicine. Arthritis hurts, but pain, physical therapy and a supportive husband who doesn't mind if I scream in pain in public helped a lot.

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Joan Harrington link
12/6/2014 01:31:05 am

Hi Francene,

Such an inspiring post :) Thank you for sharing!!

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Amalia link
12/6/2014 03:12:37 am

Wow. Just the thought of being eaten alive by a snake. . . oh! It's awful!

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Corey link
12/6/2014 04:19:59 am

Hey :)
Okay so one, I have to watch that. Didn't know a guy did that. Second, I want to say great blog here, Pain can really bring a great day to halt. Have a great day!

To an abundant lifestyle,
Corey

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Alana link
12/6/2014 06:14:41 am

I have times of back pain from scoliosis not diagnosed until later in life, when it was too late for any treatment. I've benefited a lot from therapeutic massage. The one time I took muscle relaxants and an addictive pain drug it made me so sick I stopped almost immediately. You have been through so much recently I can only hope your pain will get better. Constant pain is one of the worst thing someone can experience.

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Ashley
12/6/2014 06:18:46 am

Yet again, another intriguing post by you Francene. Never regret stopping by your page! How do I deal with pain... I cry. I wouldn't say I deal with it well. A lot of times it takes a long time to process emotional pain but physical pain... well, I'm just a big old baby!

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Laurel Regan link
12/6/2014 07:00:17 am

My husband has been experiencing tremendous pain over the past couple of years, and just recently had a hip replacement which should correct that. He definitely would understand about chronic pain.

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elly stornebrink link
12/6/2014 04:51:47 pm

Wow! What a post Francene (as usual)! ;) Years ago I took too many painkillers for migraine headaches that usually lasted three days in a row. Since then, I prefer to avoid taking painkillers as they are toxic for the body. I either focus on my breathing and do so a lot and/or drink lots of water and/or do some energy healing and/or distract myself if and when possible. However, with the pain that I've been experiencing for about four months now - plantar fasciitis - I finally ended up going to a physiotherapist and seeing my homeopath. Rolling my foot on a frozen bottle only does so much and only temporarily! Oh, and sometimes I just plain out swear...apparently that helps! ;) <3

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Penny link
12/9/2014 01:46:48 am

Umm,...I don't know what would possess someone to be swallowed by an anaconda. Not my idea of spending a day.

I used to suffer from severe migraines when I was younger and would end up in the hospital for shots of demerol to control the pain. Not fun. But once I removed myself from certain stressful situations, the migraines stopped, thank God.

My hubby had pain in his ear like that. The doc worked on him, only to discover the tip of a Q-tip lodged deep inside. It had gotten infected and hurt him for a couple of weeks before going to the doc. Good luck with your treatment in this. Blessings to you and your husband.

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Nuno link
10/28/2015 04:05:31 am

I really don't understand why someone wants to be swallowed by an giant green anaconda, that just stupid.

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