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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Why splurge funds on one special day?

12/1/2014

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Two big events have recently been held to help couples with financial difficulties make their vows.


Nearly 2,000 Brazilian couples married at an indoors sports venue in Rio de Janeiro. 

Separated by a vast ocean, 600 African couples made their vows at a mass wedding ceremony in Harare, Zimbabwe.


In the biggest mass wedding in the city's history, prophet Emmanuel Makandiwa held the first of two ceremonies in Harare. So many couples applied, that they had to be split into two groups. The second group will get their turn early next year.

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The annual event in Brazil, promoted by the local authorities, is aimed helping low-income couples who cannot afford to pay for a wedding. The event has been named "Dia do Sim", or "I Do Day". The couples and their guests arrived in special commuter trains. An estimated 12,000 people packed the arena at the Maracanazinho arena, which will be used for the Olympics in 2016. Volunteer civil judges presided over the ceremony, during which couples were blessed by a Roman Catholic bishop and a Christian evangelical pastor.

But mass wedding ceremonies are not new.

South Korea has became famous for its mass 'blessing' ceremonies since its inception in 1954.

In February, a second wedding event was performed by the Unification Church since the death of leader and self-declared messiah Sun Myung Moon. The huge ceremony took place at the CheongShim Peace World Center, a 25,000-seat stadium in Gapyong-gun, South Korea. After their marriage, participants must refrain from sex for 40 days and nights to echo Jesus in the desert.

Back in January, nearly 300 Palestinian couples took part in mass wedding ceremonies in the West Bank and Gaza, attended by the president.

The Palestinian Authority paid for all the wedding expenses, which included a gift of $4,000 for each couple. Unfortunately, participants were separated according to location. Another 80 couples married at a parallel ceremony in the Hamas-controlled Gaza Strip.


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Not everyone can afford to splurge on their 'dream wedding'. In England, venues are booked years ahead. Forking out money on guest gifts and a big banquet seems to me to be a complete waste of money. All a loving couple need is to promise love for another under the watchful eyes of society and they can embark on their lives together. They might make that promise in private to their Creator too.

Here's the experience part: I married my first husband in a local church attended by a few friends and my mother. We had no gathering afterward. That union lasted 27 years. A celebrant conducted my second marriage. Very few people witnessed that one either. We all went to a Greek restaurant to celebrate with smashing glasses and dancing. After 26 years, my husband and I more loving and supportive of each other than ever.

I like the way authorities in far-off countries have considered ordinary people's needs. Not everyone can afford a splendid, one-couple celebration.


8 Comments
Kate Fever link
11/30/2014 07:24:53 pm

What an unusual idea, but so beneficial for people who cannot afford to spend so much money on one day!

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Emma
11/30/2014 07:27:35 pm

Lovely post. I completely agree not everyone can can afford to splurge on a dream wedding. There are so many helpful DIY blog out there though to help cut down costs which is great! x

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Sophie Bowns link
11/30/2014 07:37:26 pm

It's so true!
I'm not particularly bothered about having an expensive wedding...IF I get married!

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Amy link
11/30/2014 09:01:40 pm

In an age when marriage is on the decline (young couples are living together instead) I support anything that encourages taking the leap into married life! Although I would imagine that a tasteful, simple wedding need not cost that much, I know that it is still beyond the means of some young folks. The important part, anyway, is what comes after the wedding: learning to be a loving and supportive couple. Sounds like you've got that covered, Francene!!

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Mary Burris link
12/1/2014 02:19:19 am

I've always been a fan of the smaller lower-cost wedding. Seems the money could be better spent elsewhere - but that's just my opinion. My first marriage was at a small recreation hall with a few friends and family there.

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Donna link
12/1/2014 02:58:46 am

Great post - I did enjoy my first big and expensive wedding - something I'll always remember that I had the opportunity to do - and my longer 2nd marriage was on the cliffs of Big Sur, in So Cal with only my family - and then a big reception back home - that too was memorable - mainly because I was a bit older and appreciated both with loving and fond memories :)

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Penny link
12/1/2014 03:45:34 am

I wonder how many of those couples restrained themselves from sex for those 40 days??? Hmm...

I'm all for very small weddings...or eloping.

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Mary Burris link
12/1/2014 09:26:29 am

Hey, I nominated you for the Liebster award!
Check out the post explaining what you have to do

http://jinglejanglejungle.blogspot.com/2014/12/liebster.html

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