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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Forced marriages still go on.

5/25/2014

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Throughout history, arranged marriages have forged bonds, untied tribes and built kingdoms. Who knows if those marriages were happy? But since then the social order has moved on. Now, girls should be free to choose who they marry.

Balance in all things, I say, especially between men and women.

In England, even the sons of Prince Charles and the late Princess Diana choose their partners with care. Just recently, I read of Prince Harry's choice of partner deciding against marriage.

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In the UK, girls as young as five years old will be sent abroad during the summer holidays to marry older men. Many have complained afterward of being raped on their wedding nights and routinely beaten by their husbands. 700 calls a month come in to the charity Karma Nirvana from distressed girls.

But next month, after ten years of work, forced marriage will become illegal in England and Wales, with wrongdoers facing years behind bars if they try to arrange for an innocent youngster to marry against their will.

The Bill came after one former victim was brave enough to speak out. The girl was just 14 when her Indian parents told her she would be made to marry an older man.

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Having watched her five older sisters go through the same fate, one of them eventually setting fire to herself, she refused. At the age of 16, her parents left her in a small room with the padlock on the outside until she eventually agreed.

However, she planned to escape. After some time, she was found, but refused to be married off, whereupon her parents disowned her.

Concerned that other girls might not be strong enough to withstand the pressure, she launched the charity Karma Nirvana from her front room in 1993, aiming to put an end to forced marriage and honor-based violence.

After campaigning and lobbying the Government to make it illegal, the woman, now 48, finally got her wish. Jasvinder Sanghera received a CBE in December for her efforts.

The UK Government deals with 8,000 cases a year and those are just the ones who fight their case. The fact that forced marriages are now illegal should put a stop to what was once thought of as a cultural issue. See karmanirvana.org.uk.


6 Comments
Michael link
5/24/2014 08:02:52 pm

Forced marriage is a evil,barbaric practice and it should be banned. Feel very sorry for the women who caught in this...

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David Hunte link
5/24/2014 10:38:46 pm

This is a horrible thing. Everyone should have a choice. I'm glad that the law is changed. This issue needs to be shared so that awareness can be raised.
Thanks for sharing.

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Christy Hall link
5/25/2014 12:31:50 am

Sometimes it does seem strange that things like this still go on in the world. How can choice still be a luxury?

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Marjie Murter Walenta link
5/25/2014 01:33:21 am

This is nauseating, terrifying, and just awful. Thank God the law has changed, but those poor women must still be so traumatized by their experiences! I just can't imagine such a thing.

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Alana link
5/25/2014 10:31:02 am

Will this practice die out in our lifetimes, along with female circumcision and other barbarities? Sometimes it seems we go backwards and not forwards.

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Amy link
5/25/2014 10:49:49 pm

I'm glad to read that this awful practice is being outlawed in some areas. Unfortunately there are still plenty of places where it is legal and accepted. Poor little girls, robbed of their childhoods, and forced into such an unnatural and painful life.

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