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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Just how much can an unborn child experience?

9/13/2014

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A Philadelphia couple experienced everything on their bucket list before the birth of their baby.

Why would they do that? Because their son has been diagnosed with a complex neural defect that kills most infants soon after birth.

Anencephaly results in babies being born without parts of their brain and skull meaning their life could be very brief.

After learning their unborn child would be born with the condition, the parents drew up with a list of places and experiences that they wanted to share with their unborn child during the mother's pregnancy before the expected arrival in October.

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And the couple worked so hard to complete the list, they checked off their last activity last week. They've attended baseball games, visited the beach and taken a trip to New York City.

The parents will cherish every second they have with their son and say they can't wait to meet their little man.

You might think this is wasted effort, but science has proven otherwise. Besides the parents using positive activity to strengthen the memory of their son's early life, the baby can hear, feel emotions, and bond with his parents before birth.

Here's an excerpt from Parents Ask About Life In The Womb: 

A study in Ireland, using ultrasound observation and measured pulses of sound revealed that babies with normal hearing start moving in reaction to sound around 16 weeks gestational age. This was earlier than previous estimates and occurs about two months before completion of the ear, suggesting that there is more to hearing than the ear alone. Babies seem especially interested in parental voices and begin learning the mother's native language (the mother tongue) while in the womb.

Around the third week after conception, a folding maneuver creates the neural tube from which the brain and spinal cord develop. If all goes well, a rapid, richly choreographed set of movements will put all the basic parts of the brain in place by eight weeks. These will not be replaced. From this foundation, brain parts will send out branches and establish billions of connections necessary for the perfect coordination of the entire nervous system. This process will continue for years after birth. Amazingly, the brain, like the heart, remains active during its own construction. Various experiences the brain has during this period including encounters with food, drink, medicine, games, accidents, and nicotine--will actually determine its final size and organization. Therefore, it is best to assume the brain is already working and to love your baby and communicate with it without any waiting period.

Studies of pregnant mothers watching upsetting videos suggest that babies can become upset along with their mothers. Several studies have revealed that babies tend to become depressed when their pregnant mothers are depressed, an effect which begins in the womb and has been measured after birth.

Every baby is stimulated by the natural environment of the womb while being carried about by a normally active, expressive mother. This means exposure to music, singing, voices, rhythmic dancing, exercise, bathing, touching, and all other activities. Harm is not likely unless experiences are taxing, jolting, or violent. Formal programs of prenatal enrichment which have been thoroughly tested in experimental and control groups confirm that prenates are alert, aware, socially oriented, and are learning from experience. Furthermore, test results seem to demonstrate that the extra stimulation has a positive influence on brain development.

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This leads me to wonder how much influenced me before I was born. My parents weren't happy, and yet I was born with a placid temperament and an easy-going personality, disinclined to need the company of others. Perhaps that is a coping device.

My next sibling is clever and socially active, although she experiences panic attacks of late.

During my mother's third pregnancy, my parents were separated and my mother in dire financial straights. She was suicidal at one stage until a kind woman took her in until the birth. The year was about 1947. My sister and I, at the ages of three & five, were looked after in a children's home. My youngest sibling has trouble coping and is inclined toward depression.

I think the young couple from the news story have the right idea about creating happy memories for their unborn child. Maybe their positive influence will work miracles.

Every person is unique. I'd love you to share your own experience at and before the time of your birth.


12 Comments
Rachel link
9/12/2014 07:38:12 pm

It is so amazing how far science has progressed and how much we can see and know about what babies look like from these new 4D scans, to being able to operate on them whilst they are still in the womb.

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Stephanie Merry link
9/12/2014 08:06:27 pm

I think what the American couple did with their unborn child is a lovely idea x

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Sophie Bowns link
9/12/2014 08:20:45 pm

Gosh, just look at the 4D scans- amazing!
-I liked the little extract.
:)

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DejaCreations link
9/12/2014 08:34:53 pm

Interesting.

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Alexandria Gunn link
9/12/2014 08:56:15 pm

It's lovely what the American couple did. People like that are always an inspiration, and really show that there are still wonderful people in the world.

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Nisha Sanjeev link
9/12/2014 10:59:39 pm

Salutes to the couple. Its true. There are lots of studies on how childhood conditioning and prenatal conditions affect individuals.

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Joan Harrington link
9/13/2014 01:09:03 am

Hi Francene,

It is amazing........Thank you for sharing :)

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Donna Ward link
9/13/2014 02:36:49 am

Just another heart to heart way of falling in love with a miracle! Beautiful - thank you :)

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Judy - Pedagogical Artist link
9/13/2014 03:02:59 am

Beautiful and inspirational. Takes a lot of courage and hope. You, Francene, describe differences between you and your siblings suggesting perhaps that these differences may somehow be related to your mom's frame of mind during each pregnancy.

I have found that some of the differences between myself and my siblings are definitely related to our place in the family (first-born, middle child and youngest). Growing up we obviously went through the same events, but as a result of our age difference (and place in the family) we perceived and experienced each of these defining events differently.

Your post is a reminder that while it may seem that we know so much, in reality so much of the human miracle remains a wonder.
HUGS <3

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Linda Omura link
9/13/2014 05:38:57 am

I know that babies can hear and recognize their mother's voice after being born. That's a great reminder to keep a lot of positive in our life before the baby is born.

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Kristen from The Road to Domestication link
9/13/2014 05:46:39 am

That is a beautiful idea! I've always heard about reading to babies in the womb, and playing music for them, but nothing beyond that! Interesting!

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elly stornebrink link
9/20/2014 03:13:03 pm

I think it was wonderful and a great idea that the parents did everything on their bucket list, not only for the reasons mentioned above, but also miracle of miracles, what would happen if the baby's life was prolonged and for a long(er) time? The parents might not have had the time and/or the resources etc. to do so. Also, I agree with Judy's remarks about family placement. I wrote a blog post on one perspective: http://xpressyouressence.blogspot.ca/2014/08/middle-child-you-are-special-todays.html ;) <3

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