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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Is our face the most important image?

10/6/2014

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A 28 year-old former beauty is considering her new life without the mask she has worn for two years. After a jealous rival doused her in methylated spirits and set her alight, she suffered third-degree burns over two thirds of her body, requiring more than 30 procedures of reconstructive surgery. In the early stages, the burns unit placed her in an induced coma.

But a person's face is the most difficult part to reconstruct. For two years, she has worn the special compression mask to help heal the terrible burns.

On a UK television program, she revealed that although she appreciates the specialist care given, and the mask which has held her face together, she feels faceless—a nothing, a nobody.


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So, I raise the question about our self-image being all about the face. After all, if you're fat, or confined to a wheel-chair, or walk with a limp, or have a finger missing, everything is okay as long as your face looks presentable, right?

I can't envisage myself with a different face—and that's what the acid victim is facing.

Do people really look beyond a stranger's expression to see the depth of another's soul, or their sense of humor, or their caring personality? And what about our family? Would they relate to you in the same way if your face changed?

I guess the most important question you could ask yourself is: would your self-worth be affected?


9 Comments
Fashion-Mommy link
10/5/2014 07:18:29 pm

Poor woman. I do think our face is us, it's what people notice first, the focal point. I can't imagine what this lady has gone through.

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atosa nikkhah link
10/5/2014 07:20:36 pm

her story is so sad i watched her documentary, but she has recovered to the best and shes so strong

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kate koving shenk link
10/5/2014 08:57:32 pm

"A nameless, faceless entity" without an identity. An opportunity to begin anew.

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Minette link
10/5/2014 09:10:40 pm

Fascinating post Francene. I am sad that she sees her identity so deep tied with her beauty. I can't imagine my face a different than it is but I do know that my face is just what people notice first - it's not the whole me, just the first glimpse. I hope she finds a way to heal her spirit. I can't imagine the physical pain she has experienced much less the emotional pain.

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Nick #thisyearinmusic link
10/5/2014 09:53:20 pm

I read about this story. So sad. Society is so fickle when it comes to beauty. Ultimately none of it matters as you can be beautiful, but if you are nasty horrible person it doesn't mean anything.

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Shay link
10/5/2014 11:34:31 pm

I think that we value ourselves through how we look. A millionaire could be a millionaire but still feel worthless when they look at themselves in their mirror.

Society (and our allowance of it) has really created us to be so vain that our face is a huge part of us. What should matter is what's on the inside.

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India link
10/5/2014 11:44:31 pm

I definitely think that my face is what makes me feel like me. I got a hair cut once and looked so unlike myself that I hated it, not because I looked but because I didn't look like me. Your face is what people recognise when they see you, so I can see why she would feel like she was no one/ not herself.

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Michelle Liew link
10/6/2014 12:07:13 am

Francene, sad, but people do not really look beyond the face. It's something we humans have to learn!

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Joan Harrington link
10/6/2014 08:30:34 am

Hi Francene,

Great post!

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