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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Does someone need to die before we appreciate them?

10/2/2014

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The news today, revealed a story about a heroic father who died as he made a desperate effort to push his car to safety on a busy road. His wife and daughters were inside the broken-down vehicle. His first thought when the vehicle stopped was for the safety of his loved ones and fellow motorists.

But as he tried to push the heavy vehicle on to the verge of the dual carriageway, he was hit by a passing car. After being taken to hospital, he died.

His wife knew their position on the busy road would have caused a horrendous smash. He had pushed them to a safe well-lit area so it would not cause a pile-up. "He was selfless and he did everything a dad should do, and he knew that." His mother told of his sense of humor and generosity to those in need and how he would help older people without charging for his services. "He was completely dedicated to all of the family and would do everything he could for the girls.”

The family will always remember the recent holiday in Mexico with their beloved father.


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Is this what it means by, “Live each day as if it's your last.”

Not that we should anticipate death, but rather, we should make good memories for those we love. The funny thing is: my thoughts center on the best in every loved-one of mine who has died, despite their shortcomings.

Some people refuse to think of the word death. But you and I know there is nothing surer. When our bodies die, I like to think our spirit moves on to another realm.

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But while we are here on Earth, acknowledge the best in the people close to you. Another saying comes to mind: “Eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die.” Rather than referring to over-indulgence, I guess the words refer to appreciation.

We are not all born equal. I believe that's because we are each at a different stage of our soul's growth. Knowing that, we can allow each other the time needed to learn. Not all of us will be hero's like the father in the news item. But each of us can aim for the best we can be.

My husband is about to undergo treatments for cancer. At this moment, we don't know if his condition is dire or not. Knowing our shared time is shortening, the best thing for me to do is focus on each day. After all, what else do we really have?


11 Comments
Jemma
10/1/2014 07:27:28 pm

Thank you for this post. I really hope that your husband's treatment goes well and his prognosis is a positive one. God bless!

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Sonia link
10/1/2014 07:29:17 pm

This is so very true, it's hard at times to focus on 'living as though it is your last' as we get so caught up in the trudgery of everyday live. But I always try and remember each day to never go to bed on an argument and always hug and kiss my love ones goodbye.

I hope the cancer treatment goes well for your husband. Sending you strength to get through xx

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Mary link
10/1/2014 07:32:22 pm

Thank you for this touching story. I hope cancer treatment goes well for your husband.

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Alexandria Gunn link
10/1/2014 08:00:20 pm

A thought-provoking and touching post. Thank you for sharing it. I'm sorry to hear about your father, you will all be in my prayers.

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Lancelot link
10/1/2014 08:57:36 pm

Thank you so much for highlighting this point.
Also we should follow the mantra of being merry today so as to not be sad if we die tomorrow.
But the reality thwarts our plans to be merry as this fast paced life is full of work and responsibilities
We do need to appreciate this life of ours!!
Hoping your husband's treatment goes well.

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Fran link
10/1/2014 09:37:14 pm

A strong reminder to live in the moment, and it is always lovely to read about the self-less everyday hero's in society. However very sad that he died.

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Tawnee link
10/1/2014 09:44:03 pm

This is true. We should all take a moment to relish in what we have now instead of continuing to rush around with out lives assuming we can always "do it later" because you never know when "later" won't come anymore. Good luck to your husband and may you two have good times to relish in.

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Tami Principe link
10/1/2014 10:37:18 pm

Sending prayers and positive thoughts for your husbands treatment. Life is so precious and we should enjoy every moment we can.

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Michelle link
10/1/2014 10:55:56 pm

This is poignant, Francene. We always think "Oh, he'll be there tomorrow," and cry buckets if he isn't. We should cherish those around us while they are there!

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Amy link
10/1/2014 11:18:47 pm

Francene,
God bless you! When we went through the scare and the treatments and all the scariness of the cancer of my daughter-in-law, it was an intense time. But cancer treatment in this day and age can be amazing, and if your husband is diagnosed with it, his chances are pretty good that he'll get excellent care and treatment and that you'll have many more years to enjoy together. In any case, have hope and treasure every day! That's a good way to live, no matter how your health is.

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Alana Mautone link
10/2/2014 11:44:49 am

Life is precious. We forget that, as we are caught up in our everyday routines. What a sad but inspirational story. I wish you and your husband the best as he begins his treatment.

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