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Francene--Blog. Year 2014

Are you lonely despite social networking?

12/12/2014

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Not only the elderly are feeling lonely as Christmas approaches.

Young people are suffering an epidemic of loneliness despite being more connected by technology than any previous generation.

The survey, for a special day of programs under the slogan “A Life Less Lonely”, is part of a series of special BBC television and radio programs highlighting the issue of loneliness, which has been linked with poor health and other well-being measures.

Research for a series of has found that almost one in 10 adults expects to spend most or all of Christmas Day alone.

How sad. Yet Christmas Day is just one day in the 365 of the year.

The poll revealed three in 10 of those aged between 18 and 24 experience loneliness during the day, almost the same rate as that among those over 65 (31 per cent).


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This points to a yearning for traditional face-to-face communication, despite a growing number of interactions than ever before taking place through technology.

Does Facebook or Twitter give you all you need?

The use of social networking websites has dipped in the U.S and U.K., according to research conducted by U.K. telecoms regulator, Ofcom. Visits to ‘traditional’ social networks also fell in Japan and China between September 2013 and October 2014, it found.

Although I check in three times a day, I don't feel connected. Sometimes, I wonder why I even bother. Valuable time is wasted in reading posts and what is gained?

My effort has not resulted in many extra readers for my books. And that's my main reason for contact. Perhaps time would be better spent on writing my novels. I'd certainly find that more enjoyable.

What do you think about social networking?


11 Comments
Janice Wald link
12/11/2014 10:43:04 pm

Hi Francene,
I am not lonely; I am frustrated by lack of blog traffic despite my many efforts on social media. I love the contact with people (like you) who are kind enough to write to me about my posts. I wonder if research has been done on this.

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Ellie
12/12/2014 12:26:43 am

Hi! I completely agree, although we "communicate" with people daily, it's really not the same as having a coffee and a gossip with a friend in real life!

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Joan Harrington link
12/12/2014 01:33:38 am

Hi Francene,

I am not lonely on Social Media, always learning new ways to engage and share and meeting new people daily, so always have something to look forward to with Social Media :)
Great post!

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Laurel Regan link
12/12/2014 03:06:41 am

I am definitely not lonely on social media! I think of my blog as my home, and love all the visitors who drop by. I only wish I had more time to do everything online that I want to do!

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Sophie Bowns link
12/12/2014 03:55:37 am

I'm with Janice!
-Getting lots of traffic on my blog is hard work!

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Alana link
12/12/2014 06:59:15 am

I don't think cyberfriends can substitute for physical friends. Social networking is limited in so many ways. I can see my young adult son abandoning social networks for real life friends. To me,blogging is a way to enjoy my need to write and my need to photograph. But, blogs come and go. I've learned not to get "too close" to any. (Francene, I will miss you when you quit blogging, though).

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Lilinha Espindula link
12/12/2014 07:57:08 am

I know what you mean. Although we are always 'chatting' to people online and keeping in touch through social media, it is not the same as physical friends x

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Barbara link
12/12/2014 02:31:09 pm

Ditto. I will miss you if you stop blogging (I appreciate you)

I have a large family so loneliness is not an issue, but face to face quality time with individuals is something that I must be attentive to. Sharing with the blog community, writing and getting just the right photos is fun, although I would like to get even more traffic and share with more folks:)

Enjoy your weekend!

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Mary Burris link
12/12/2014 05:54:37 pm

I would miss you as well if you stopped blogging. I can't say that I'm lonely, I'm always interacting in some way on my social media, and most days I feel there isnt enough hours in the day. I'm being forced to be away from my social media for a few days, and even though my blog will still post, and my tweets will still go out, I am going to miss the interaction I have with my online friends.

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Corey link
12/13/2014 03:50:30 am

Hey there, great post here. A lot of people will get value from this :)

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Ashley
12/13/2014 01:27:11 pm

This is very interesting. Being a single mom doesn't allow me a lot of time to have a social life so I think social networking helps me stay connected. However, being a single mom means I feel lonely quite a bit. I think it's just part of life too, social networking or not.

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